Hopefully this bug leaves me soon so that i can come to work every morning and blog. wahahaha! like i have what, only 11 unique visitors? haha. but then again, being on leave ytd was good!! i had porridge delivered to my place (aww) and i was driven to see a doctor (aww) and i went shopping after that at vivo :P (aww) i really appreciate you! did some makeup shopping and i swear i got a real good deal with this new blue eyeshadow that MAC has launched:
Mineralize Eye Shadow (Duo), Sea & Sky Shade
Description: Silvery pale blue with deep blue and silver veining/Bright blue mono (Frost)
NICE? (:
I also got a blusher - a pity Estee Lauder doesnt have my favourite palette blush by itself :( and i really need a blusher cuz ive used up the whole thing. and amazingly, i bought the same blusher shade as vic. like vic said, "what are the odds man!?" (: tee hee.
Oh yes, did i mention before that Estee Lauder and MAC are under the same umbrella?
I finally bought board shorts (its loud orange!) ive always been eyeing one and i finally got one at 50% off - so it only cost me like $29.50 :D i love good deals. i always compare and complain. i compare why ladies board shorts and mens board shorts cost about the same ($60-70 for ladies and $70-$80 for the mens) when the ladies board shorts uses lesser cloth!!! and then i complain about it cuz im female and mens cut jus doesnt flatter my ass, or any other part of my body. it aint like i can jus put a belt over it like how we ladies wear mens shirt dress. it jus doesnt work that way, right?
Vic came over after her work and we headed down to Holland V (: Holland V is love. had crystal jade and the voucher thing came thru. me and JTL are such sneaky creatures. haha! pity vic wasnt feeling all jaded and had subway first. she did have mango pudding after though. hehe, i can never understand her love for that mango pudding. at least she had JTL to split the calories, like he needs anymore!!!? eyelash shopping soon babe! :P hehe. and we went to our playground, and explored a new one with a stone path. yay! i love stone paths. its like free foot relexology. each step you take has uncertainty, each stone hits a different nerve - but i enjoy every bit of it!
Open relationship
What exactly is an open relationship? There are a few definitions upon searching - but these two are the ones that interest me:
1) An open relationship is a when two people like each other, but you only call it a relationship when either partners legs are spread wide open like a pterodactyl's wings. otherwise theyre just regular-ass friends. thats like being friends with benefits, no?
2) An open relationship is a relationship where one person does not own the other. The couple are not exclusively seeing each other and can date, flirt and hook up with other people should they wish to do so. In a true open relationship the couple will be fully honest with each other (unlike most regular relationships). They will not get pissed at each other for stupid things such as not ringing the day before, wearing a slutty top, passing out cold in a club, kissing that lesbian in the lift. In fact they will just love each other for who they are and support each other through times of need. Although other people will say they are sluts and it will never work, they only say this because they are jealous. In the end the couple will get bored of seeing other people because they realise they are the best two out there. Then they get married and have beautiful children. And retire together in Goa. i like the last part. thats what a hopeless romantic like me believes in! haha.
My own definition
3) Being together (that of relationship), in solid sweet love. and telling everyone else (being open) that knows you guys that you guys are in a blissful relationship. this is what i believe in, a relationship. if im with you, i tell the whole world about it. i bring you out to meet my family and friends. you become part of my life, you complete me - be my other half. i love you and you love me and we are mutually exclusive. this is my definition.
References: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=open+relationship
Its amazing how people can have open relationships. i, for one, aint a believer of it. i dont fight battles i dont believe i can win. if i want something, i make sure i get it. if i do something, i make sure i excel in it and i do it. i get, deserve and attract only the best of the best.
I know i bring out the best in you. i wish as hell that you see this point now. but if you dont, time will reveal this to you, and when it does, thats when it'd hit you hard. im glad you realised that you were being selfish with that suggestion. i dont blame you, love is selfish. but im selfish too, its either i have it or i dont have it. i want to be only yours and i want you to be only mine. so when you're ready and you know its only me you want then you can come back for me. i hope to be behind that door, looking through the pin hole, knowing that you're back. and hope i have the courage to open that door for you.
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